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2019 was another incredible year - my busiest yet in fact, with 73 wonderful weddings! I always encourage new song requests and generally learn a new song or two per wedding.
I've been going through recent special requests from wedding couples, and have added the following songs to the list:
- Tom Walker - Better Half of Me
- James Arthur - Falling Like The Stars
- Disclosure/Sam Smith - Latch (acoustic)
- Kodaline - Love Like This
- The Beatles - A Little Help From My Friends
- Paul Simon - You Can Call me Al
- Tears for Fears - Everybody Wants To Rule The World
- Fleetwood Mac - Songbird
- The Cranberries - Dreams
- Candi Staton / Florence + The Machine - You've Got The Love
- McFly - Star Girl
- Ed Sheeran - Barcelona
- Ed Sheeran - I Don't Care
- Bob Marley - Is This Love
- Louis Armstrong - We Have All The Time In The World
- I Wanna Grow Old With You (from the film The Wedding Singer)
- Craig David - 7 Days
- Jake Etheridge - So In Love With You
- Red Hot Chili Peppers - The Zephyr Song
- Callum Scott - Dancing On My Own
- David Brent - Freelove Freeway
As you can see, I get some pretty diverse requests! Maybe this list will help inspire your perfect wedding song?
Here's to another year of learning new songs... if you've booked me for your wedding, you can make your selections and special requests on the online form here.
Wedding music! It's a tricky one to get right. Everyone's looking for that perfect composition to walk down the aisle to, or a truly meaningful song to make the first dance memorable. The old classics still live on, but occasionally a new song comes out that just fits perfectly for that special moment.
It's only January, but my early pick for 2020 is this brilliant track by the uber-talented Tom Walker. It's called "Better Half of Me" and you can hear my acoustic version here:
Tom Walker has such a strong, rich tone to his voice and he really puts some power into his vocals! My style is definitely a lot more laid back, so I wanted to put together a relaxed version of this song which would perfectly fit a wedding ceremony or first dance.
I can just imagine that moment when the groom first sets eyes on his bride walking down the aisle, with the beautiful lyrics of the song: "I'd have all I need... if you were standing right in front of me... I finally see what it means to be complete"
Fits perfectly, don't you think?
This tune is definitely going to be a top pick this year I think, and I can't wait to play it at weddings in 2020!
Written by Pat McIntyre – singer & acoustic guitarist for weddings and other events based in Bristol, UK.
Blog: How to choose music for your marriage ceremony
I think wedding music is one of those things that can sometimes get a little overlooked during the planning phase. As a singer and guitarist, I speak with lots of brides and grooms who are huge music fans and know exactly what they're after! But for every couple that have it all figured out, there's another couple that don't know where to start. I find the same questions tend to pop up again and again, so here's my quick guide to picking your perfect ceremony music.
How many songs should we choose for the marriage ceremony?
Undoubtedly the most common question I get asked! This can vary, depending on whether you're having a civil ceremony, a church wedding or an alternative celebration - such as a humanist ceremony, for example. Typically, you'll always need some music during the processional (walking down the aisle), the signing of the register and the recessional (exit of the married couple).
The civil ceremony
A civil ceremony is a non-religious marriage ceremony. Most civil ceremonies will have:
- One song during the processional (walk down the aisle / bridal entrance)
- Three songs during the signing of the register
- One song during the recessional (exit of the married couple)
The main varying factor here is the signing of the register. Usually what happens is - the couple sign the legal marriage register, then shortly afterwards the registrars bring out a blank register. This allows the couple to have a 'fake' signing, and the photographer can take some pictures of the happy couple sealing the deal! Photos of the legal marriage register are not allowed, which is why they bring out a blank register for the fake signing. You may also invite your guests forward to get some snaps at this point, so depending on how long this takes, it's usually up to about 10 minutes, so three songs is usually bang on the money.
Church/religious wedding ceremonies
Religious ceremonies are a little different, so you should liaise with the person conducting the ceremony. I can only comment on Christian ceremonies here, but in my experience you would usually have:
- One song during the processional
- Two or three hymns for the congregation to sing
- Two or three pieces of music during the signing of the register
- One song during the recessional
Often the songs will played by an organist at the church, however some ceremonies are more flexible and may allow a live musician such as myself. I've played at a number of church weddings - sometimes I'll play all the music (other than the hymns), and sometimes I may alternate with the organist.
Humanist and other alternative ceremonies
For those couples that don't want to go down the more traditional route, the options are limitless for creating their own perfect ceremony. Humanist and alternative ceremonies don't hold any legal status, so often couples will choose to tie the knot elsewhere beforehand, maybe the day before.
These ceremonies are usually conducted by a celebrant, or maybe even a friend or family member who is confident talking in front of large groups of people! In terms of music, it really can follow any path you want, but typically there will be songs during the processional and recessional, just as in a civil or religious ceremony.
A popular option is to have guests sing along to a song or two during the ceremony, kind of like an alternative hymn - more on this in the hints and tips section below.
Hints and tips for choosing your ceremony music
If you're having a civil ceremony, remember this means that it's not a religious service so your music must reflect that. Your song lyrics must have no religious content whatsoever. Most registrars will ask you to submit your music choices to them a couple of months before the ceremony, so just check through the words before sending them off.
Wedding guest singalongs
This is becoming an increasingly popular idea - throwing a song or two into the wedding ceremony for the guests to sing along to, maybe as an alternative to a reading.
It's a great idea in theory - kind of like a modern day hymn - but you have to be really careful that it doesn't fail and become a bit of a damp squib. Having done this a few times, I've seen this work with varying levels of success, so these would be my tips if you're planning to get everyone singing from the same song sheet!
- Choose a REALLY well-known song, with a big, easy singalong chorus that even if they don't know, they'll pick up quickly. For example - All You Need Is Love by the Beatles is absolutely perfect.
- Keep it upbeat and fun. Don't go for a slow song - you'll need something that will keep the energy flowing.
- Make it short! Don't choose a 6 minute epic... everyone will lose interest. Around 2 minutes is the sweet spot. If I'm playing the song live, I can adapt it and shorten it as necessary by removing long intros/outros, cutting verses etc. If you're playing the song through a phone/iPad, it's a bit more tricky but you can arrange for someone to fade it down at an appropriate point.
- Print off the lyrics onto your wedding programme, so that everyone knows what they're singing. Even better, have the lyrics on a screen up front (maybe tricky to organise but not impossible!) - when people's heads are up and not looking down at a sheet, their voices will project and it will sound so much better!
- Ask someone super-confident to be a bit of a ringleader to get everyone going. If your registrar says "ok, everyone is going to sing a song now", chances are people will be less-than-enthusiastic and will mumble quietly into their lyric sheets. Instead, ask the registrar to "hand over to (person) who will lead us through a singalong to (song title)". Ask that person to stand up at the front, sing as loudly as they can and get everyone involved! Also ask all the guests who can to stand - people tend to sing more enthusiastically when stood up rather than sat down.
- Similar to the last point, another idea is to practice the songs on the hen or stag party, and have the hens or stags up front at the ceremony leading the song. A bride recently mentioned to me that this was what they were going to do - I think this is a great idea!
- Finally, and this is more of a hunch, but I think this will probably only work well with a live musician who can interact with the group. Just playing a song via a phone is probably not going to get everyone to engage as well with the idea.
There will usually be 15-20 minutes before the marriage ceremony itself, during which guests will take their seats and settle before the big moment. This is a nice time to have a bit of background music on. Often your venue will provide some light music. If booked for the ceremony, I will play some live music during this time which may include some instrumental and some vocal music.
It's great to have a live musician such as myself during this part of the day, as we can be flexible with how long to play for - particularly handy if the bride is fashionably late! To read more about my wedding ceremony, drinks reception and other live music options, have a look at my pricing page where everything is explained.
So there you have it - that's the basics of wedding ceremony music covered. If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line on email@example.com - even if you haven't booked me for your wedding, I'll be glad to help! It's what I do 🙂
The trickiest bit, of course, is which songs to choose... that's a harder one to help with, but I have written some blogs on the subject which you can check out below:
I'll be adding some new selections for 2019 very soon, so keep your eyes out on my blog page.
Published 8th May 2019 by Pat McIntyre - singer & guitarist and professional musician for weddings based in Bristol.
This article is based on UK wedding/marriage ceremonies.
For more information about my live wedding music services, please visit www.guitaristforweddings.co.uk
A slightly different blog post today - a quick guide to some easy ways to sign PDFs without printing and scanning them.
When you book me in, I'll send a full legally binding contract to ensure that everything is agreed and in writing. With the technological advances in smartphones and tablets, it's now very quick and easy to sign the contract on your device and email it back to me.
I encourage everyone to email me the contract where possible - paper copies via post are still fine, but when I receive a paper copy I'll then digitise it and destroy the paper copy - so it makes sense just to receive it digitally in the first place! With the advent of GDPR, it's harder now to store paper securely in line with the regulations - much easier to keep it in secure digital format.
Method 1 - Apple devices such as iPhone and iPad
Open the PDF contract attached from your email and tap the 'markup' button (looks like a pen).
This allows you to write directly onto the PDF. Zoom in to the signature strip on page 2 and sign.
This will attach the signed PDF into a new email which you can send back to me.
Method 2 - Adobe Fill & Sign App
This is one I haven't tried personally, but I've been told this is an easy way of filling in PDFs directly from your phone or tablet. It's available on both Apple and Android devices:
Laptops, Chromebooks and other devices...
A little more complicated, so I'll defer to people who know what they're talking about!
Printing... scanning... and paper copies
If you don't fancy trying the electronic method, you can of course just print the contract and sign it by hand. Once signed, you can either scan the signature page or take a photo of it (as long as it's clear and legible), then return to me via email.
And finally... you could even post the contract to me! Remember the days when we used pen, paper and the post box?! Ha ha! That's still absolutely fine. As mentioned in the intro, I do destroy paper copies after I've digitised them and stored them securely using online cloud storage. This is due to the new GDPR regulations - it's very important to store personal data in a responsible way, and paper copies with name and addresses can easily get into the wrong hands.
published 13th March 2019
Clevedon Hall wedding fayre appearance (30th September) cancelled
Unfortunately I've had to cancel my planned appearance at the Clevedon Hall wedding fayre on Sunday September 30th due to another engagement. However I'm hoping to be back for the next one on 13th January - details TBC.
To avoid any confusion, it's only my appearance that's cancelled, the wedding fayre is going ahead as normal! So if you were planning on coming down to see me, don't let my non-appearance put you off! You'll still get the chance to chat to lots of amazing suppliers and have a look around one of the most beautiful venues in the South-West.