Wedding Guitarist Blog: Live music at your wedding – Hints, tips and what to expect!

It’s mid-April and things are starting to hot up here in Bristol… and I’m not just talking about the weather. Us folks in the wedding industry are readying ourselves for the Summer season. I’ve had a few beautiful Spring weddings already, but the real fun starts next month!

With a couple of weeks before my next wedding, I was doing a bit of admin and chatting with brides-to-be, and it occurred to me that many of the same questions come up time and time again. So I thought I’d put together a little blog post about booking a live musician such as myself. I’m getting married myself next year, so I can completely sympathise with brides and grooms-to-be who are planning their big day! If there’s one thing I can definitely help with, it’s music… so, from my personal experiences, here’s my hints & tips – and things to avoid – when booking a live musician for your wedding.

Vintage GuitaristPre-booking: Finding a musician

When arranging your wedding entertainment, finding the right musician is undoubtedly the hardest bit. Everyone’s wedding planning experience is different. Some people will know exactly what they want, some have a rough idea of how the day will pan out, and some don’t know where to start! There’s a bewildering choice of wedding suppliers, and music is no exception.


Yes, it’s a dull and practical place to start, but the first thing you should do is set a limit for how much you can afford on entertainment. I’ve read bridal magazines that suggest you should set by at least £2000 for entertainment – but then I’ve read blogs and articles that put the figure nearer £650. Although us wedding musicians don’t like to admit it, we are usually one of the later considerations when it comes to budget. Essentials such as the dress, the venue, flowers and photography are always going to take priority – so I don’t ever take offence when people say my prices are over their budget, because I know how quickly costs can add up!

I would take advice from magazines and websites with a pinch of salt – your budget is as much as you can afford. Set a figure you’re happy with – if you come in under budget, brilliant, but also be prepared to go a little over budget if you find a band or musician you really love.

Pat with Sam & Andy at Aldwick Court

What time of day is best for live music?

This is another factor which will affect what type of musician you choose. An obvious time for music is during the evening – I’ll look at this in a moment, but there’s lots of options for the daytime too. I’ll approach this question purely from my position as a singer and guitarist – I get bookings for all parts of the wedding day, so this is just my personal opinion on what works best.

Every wedding schedule is different, but most commonly I’m booked to play at the wedding ceremony and following drinks reception. This always works well in my experience – as guests arrive I’ll play 20 minutes or so of music to set a relaxed atmosphere, then I’ll play during the ceremony and for an hour or so afterwards, before guests head in for the wedding breakfast.

If you hadn’t thought about the time following the ceremony, you may well want to consider booking someone like myself to entertain guests while you’re having photos taken, and people are having refreshments. It can be a great way to fill the gap between the ceremony and wedding breakfast. This is especially true if you’re lucky enough to hold your wedding outdoors with good weather. Something about acoustic guitar and sunshine just works!

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Another increasingly popular option which works really well at weddings is afternoon tea. What’s better than sitting outdoors on a warm British Summer day with a cup of Earl Grey and a slice of cake, or a lovely cream tea?! Live acoustic music is a perfect accompaniment for this kind of setup.

Live wedding ceremony music – tips

  • most live musicians will take requests, so if you have a particular song in mind for the walk down the aisle, and/or the exit of the married couple, ask if they can play your song. I send the bride and groom an mp3 version of their song at their request, so that they can hear how my acoustic version will sound.
  • bear in mind that the walk down the aisle often doesn’t take very long! Most songs are 3-4 minutes long, and the walk is often less than a minute. In this case, I would adapt the length of the song to suit, so that it ends at an appropriate moment.
  • the signing of the register is another nice time to have a couple of songs – in my experience this usually takes about 5 minutes, so time to have a couple of songs played. Again, for my weddings I welcome song requests.

Image of Pat playing at the Chosen Wedding Fair

Evening entertainment

I think many people would love to have a great band play at their wedding – but it can be difficult to pick one. The internet is great for finding people, but you really need to see them live to get a flavour of what they do. This can be a bit tricky for dedicated wedding bands – because they’re always at weddings!

One of the best ways of finding a band is by word-of-mouth recommendation. Maybe you saw a band at a friend’s wedding, or people were raving about a band they saw at someone else’s event. If you’ve found someone on the internet, see if they have any public performances you can go to. For a good function band, you should realistically be expecting to pay in the region of £1000-£1500+

DJ’s again are a tricky one – there’s many out there of varying quality (I have a couple of recommendations on my site for DJs) and unfortunately you don’t really have the option of seeing them do their thing before the big day (unless you’ve seen them at a friend’s wedding). So again, word-of-mouth is your friend here, and if you are booking someone you found on the internet, try to meet up with them to get an idea of their personality. You can usually expect to pay around £400 for a good DJ. Make sure they have good quality equipment which is PAT tested yearly, and bear in mind that some venues will require public liability insurance. These two points apply to bands and musicians as well.

*sales pitch* You may not associate an acoustic guitarist with the evening party, but my acoustic guitar/vocal style works really well if you’re after some high quality live evening entertainment which won’t break the bank. I regularly play at a couple of late-night venues in Bristol, so I know which tunes to play to get everyone up on the dance floor! *sales pitch over!*

image of Pat playing outdoors at a wedding

I hope that some of this blog is helpful if you’re planning your wedding and looking for live music. Good luck with your search for the perfect musician, and of course please do get in touch if you’re considering my acoustic guitar/singing for your wedding day!

Blog Part 2 – Common mistakes/Things to avoid


Written by Pat McIntyre, guitarist for weddings based in Bristol.

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Thu 12th March, 2015: Preferred Venues

I’ve played at a lot of fantastic places over the last few years, and this year I’m linking up with some of my favourite venues across Bristol, Bath and South Wales.

This first to announce is Aldwick Court Farm and Vineyard – an amazing wedding venue located in the Mendip countryside, within easy reach of Bristol. I love playing weddings at Aldwick – a perfect location where you can have exclusive use of the venue, in a relaxed setting with a great vibe. It’s also licensed for Civil Ceremonies, so you can host the whole wedding at one venue.

I’ve played guitar at Aldwick many times, and have loved it every time! I’ve played at the wedding ceremony in the old barn, and played drinks receptions/evening events in the new barn. It’s also possible to have live music outside when the weather is good.

The kind folk at Aldwick have included my on their suppliers lists, so it’s great to link up with one of my favourite venues in the area!

Contact me here for more information.

Aldwick Court Farm & Vineyard

Nov 29th, 2014: Wedding Music Ideas – live music for the wedding day

It’s wedding down-time now. I don’t have a wedding to play until the new year, so I thought I’d jot down a quick thought or two on having live music at a wedding…

Being an acoustic guitarist and singer, I know how much a live musician can add to the wedding day. My most common bookings are for the wedding ceremony and the following drinks reception – two parts of the day where live acoustic guitar and vocals just works so beautifully.

Image of Pat playing at the Chosen Wedding Fair

Acoustic guitar adds a personal touch at the wedding ceremony

There are many options for your wedding day if you’re looking for live musicians. Maybe you want a string quartet to provide a beautiful rendition of your song at the ceremony. Strings are a lovely accompaniment to a more traditional ceremony.

I’ve found that my modern style of acoustic guitar has been really popular in recent times. I think a lot of people instantly associate wedding guitarists with classical guitarists – a guy sat in a corner plucking a classical guitar, playing the old standards. My style is totally different… think more Ed Sheeran, Jason Mraz – I sing and play acoustic guitar and I think it really helps set the tone for the wedding day. You can check out some videos here:
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When I’m playing at the wedding ceremony, I usually have some specific songs requested by the bride and groom. I can learn most songs on the acoustic guitar (I’ve not been beaten yet, and I’ve had some obscure requests!) – and this provides a unique, memorable way of including some live music at the wedding ceremony.
Many people now follow their ceremony with a drinks reception – maybe serving champagne or afternoon tea while guests mingle, and the wedding couple have photographs taken. I think this is when an acoustic guitar set really comes into it’s own. It gives guests a focal point, and some entertainment in the afternoon. There’s often about an hour – an hour and a half gap between the ceremony and the wedding breakfast, and I love providing some music for people to listen to. It’s particularly great in the Summer, outdoors on a warm sunny day.
Pat McIntyre on the guitar!

An upbeat acoustic set is a great way to kick off the evening party

Of course, the other time at a wedding when live music comes into it’s own is at the evening party. I’m sure everyone would love to book a band, but it’s not always that easy. There’s so many bands out there – of varying quality! And with varying price ranges. You get what you pay for, as a rule, unless you can get a mate’s band to do a cheap favour for you. But generally, you’re going to need to set aside an absolute minimum of £1000 for a good band to perform on the wedding night.
This is where I come in! Booking me offers a very budget-friendly option, and I guarantee that guests will be entertained, up on the dance floor and singing along. I play out in Bristol most Friday and Saturday nights when I’m not booked for weddings, so I know exactly what songs to play to get the crowd up on their feet. From old classics like the Beatles and Van Morrisson through to modern artists like Bastille, Ed Sheeran and Jessie J, my repertoire is large and varied.
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Sometimes I’ll be booked as a warm-up, before a DJ or band – and sometimes I’ll be the main event! Either way, I love playing at the evening party and helping make it a night to remember (or forget… depending on how well the champers is flowing!!)
I hope this blog gave you some ideas – if you’re planning your wedding day and thinking about entertainment, maybe this will inspire you to book me and my guitar on your big day! You can get in touch with me here: Pat McIntyre – Contact