100 songs for Wedding Ceremonies

Picking songs for your wedding ceremony is not an easy task. With so much to think about and organise in the lead up to the big day, ceremony music can be one of those things that gets left to the last minute. If you don’t know where to start with your song choices, fear not. Even as a wedding musician, it took me ages to decide what songs to have at my own wedding!

How many songs do I need to choose for the ceremony?

For most wedding ceremonies you’ll need to make music choices for the processional (entrance) and the recessional (exit) – but there’s also usually a space for two or three songs during the signing of the register. So that’s up to five songs that you’ll need to have lined up.

Blog: Wedding Ceremony Music explained


Why have live music at the ceremony?

As a singer and guitarist, part of my service is having your bespoke songs played live and acoustic at the wedding ceremony. It’s a great way of giving your ceremony a personal, unique touch – and is a lot more elegant than having to arrange someone to play songs from a phone or iPod! The big advantage of having a live musician like myself is that I can adapt your chosen song so that it matches the walk down the aisle. So that might be cutting out verses or even changing lyrics – anything is possible so you can truly make your wedding music unique to your big day!

To read more about my live music services click here. To see my full repertoire click here.

100 Songs that I’ve played at weddings…

Following on from my previous blog posts Top 10 Wedding Ceremony and First Dance songs and Top 10 Unusual Wedding Songs, I thought it would be useful to put together a more comprehensive list. Some of these are slow and romantic, some are upbeat and fun – so these should suit most types of ceremony, depending on the ambience you want to set. Many of these would also make a good first dance song.


  1. The Traditional Bridal March/Bridal Chorus
  2. Pachelbel’s Canon In D

Classics – chilled/romantic/soulful

  1. Ben E. King – Stand By Me
  2. Al Green – Let’s Stay Together
  3. Etta James – At Last
  4. Elvis Presley – Can’t Help Falling In Love
  5. Elvis Presley – Love Me Tender
  6. Eric Clapton – Wonderful Tonight
  7. Van Morrisson – Crazy Love (also sung by Michael Buble)
  8. Frank Sinatra – Fly Me To The Moon
  9. Otis Redding – (Sitting On) The Dock Of The Bay
  10. Roberta Flack – First Time Ever I Saw Your Face
  11. Bob Marley – Is This Love
  12. The Beach Boys – God Only Knows
  13. Percy Sledge – When A Man Loves A Woman

Classics – upbeat/fun

  1. Jackie Wilson – (Your Love Keeps Lifting Me) Higher & Higher
  2. Sam Cooke – Wonderful World
  3. The Beatles – All You Need Is Love
  4. The Beatles – Here Comes The Sun
  5. Stevie Wonder – For Once In My Life
  6. Stevie Wonder – Signed, Sealed, Delivered
  7. Stevie Wonder – Isn’t She Lovely
  8. Van Morrisson – Brown Eyed Girl
  9. Hall & Oates – You Make My Dreams Come True
  10. Dusty Springfield – I Only Wanna Be With You
  11. Queen – Crazy Little Thing Called Love
  12. Queen – Best Friend

80/90’s – chilled/romantic

  1. Oasis – Wonderwall
  2. Foo Fighters – Everlong (acoustic)
  3. Robbie Williams – She’s The One
  4. K Ci & Jojo – All My Life
  5. Sixpence None The Richer – Kiss Me
  6. Chantal Kreviazuk – Feels Like Home
  7. Bryan Adams – (Everything I Do) I Do It For You

80/90’s – fun/upbeat

  1. The Ramones – Baby I Love You
  2. Sting & The Police – Every Little Thing She Does Is Magic
  3. Blue Swede – Hooked On A Feeling
  4. The Verve – Lucky Man

Modern (2000 onwards) – fun/upbeat

  1. Ray LaMontagne – You Are The Best Thing
  2. Jason Mraz – I’m Yours
  3. McFly – It’s All About You
  4. American Authors – Best Day Of My Life
  5. Coldplay – Sky Full of Stars
  6. Take That – Greatest Day
  7. Bruno Mars – Marry You
  8. Lumineers – Ho Hey
  9. Counting Crows – Accidentally In Love
  10. Michael Buble – Everything
  11. Newton Faulkener – Dream Catch Me
  12. The Kooks – She Moves In Her Own Way
  13. The Calling – Wherever You Will Go

Modern (2000 onwards) – chilled/romantic

  1. Christina Perri – A Thousand Years
  2. Ed Sheeran – Thinking Out Loud
  3. Ed Sheeran – Perfect
  4. Ed Sheeran – Tenerife Sea
  5. Ed Sheeran – Lego House
  6. Ed Sheeran – How Would You Feel
  7. Paul Weller – You Do Something To Me
  8. Elbow – One Day Like This
  9. Ellie Goulding – How Long Will I Love You
  10. Elton John – Your Song (also sung by Ellie Goulding)
  11. Jason Mraz – I Won’t Give Up
  12. Joshua Radin – I’d Rather Be With You
  13. Keb ‘Mo – Closer
  14. Jack Johnson – Better Together
  15. Jack Johnson – Angel
  16. Israel “IZ” Kamakawiwo’ole – Somewhere Over The Rainbow
  17. John Legend – All Of Me
  18. John Legend – Stay With You
  19. Samm Henshaw – Only Wanna Be With You
  20. Snow Patrol – Chasing Cars
  21. Snow Patrol – Run
  22. Adele – Make You Feel My Love
  23. Passenger – Let Her Go
  24. Oasis – Let There Be Love
  25. Damien Rice – Cannonball
  26. Coldplay – Yellow
  27. Coldplay – Magic
  28. Kodaline – The One
  29. Ben Howard – Only Love
  30. George Ezra – Listen To The Man
  31. George Ezra – Hold My Girl
  32. Birdy – Wings
  33. Bright Eyes – First Day Of My Life
  34. Bruno Mars – Just The Way You Are
  35. Jose Gonzalez – Heartbeats
  36. Paolo Nutini – Last Request
  37. Paolo Nutini – Loving You
  38. David Gray – This Years Love
  39. Derek Gust – I Do
  40. Tom Odell – Grow Old With Me
  41. Tom Odell – Real Love
  42. Train – Marry Me
  43. Plain White T’s – Hey There Delilah
  44. Lifehouse – You and Me
  45. James Arthur – Say You Won’t Let Go
  46. James Morrison – I Won’t Let You Go
  47. Keane – Somewhere Only We Know
  48. Stephen Fretwell – Run
  49. Jamie Lawson – I Wasn’t Expecting That

For some acoustic inspiration, check out my Acoustic Wedding albums on iTunes/Amazon/Spotify etc! The Acoustic Wedding Album volume 1 is available here and The Acoustic Wedding Album volume 2 is coming very soon…

Top 10 Unusual Wedding Songs

It’s early November 2017, and things are finally starting to quieten down at Pat McIntyre HQ! It’s been an amazing 10 months or so – my busiest yet, with 56 wonderful weddings and 5 still to come before the year is out. Things feel very strange at the moment, as it’s Tuesday and I have no gigs or events coming up this weekend. With a weekend in Prague (for a wedding, ironically) and a weekend in Mallorca aside, the last time I had a “weekend off” was at the start of February – and that’s because I was just getting back from New Zealand. So a busy year indeed, and with a bit of downtime, it’s time to catch up on some tasks that have been pushed down the list of priorities – starting with my blog.

Choosing a wedding song

Wedding music is one of those things that often gets left to the last minute. Choosing songs for the wedding ceremony is tricky – there’s the bridal entrance to think about, the signing of the register and the recessional (married couple exit). Later on there’s the first dance – so that’s potentially five or six songs to choose, each of which will help set the tone for your big day and reflect your personalities.

Photo courtesy of Jodie Hurd Photography
As a wedding musician, I get asked all the time which songs are popular picks at weddings, and way back in January last year I posted my ‘Top 10 wedding ceremony and first dance songs‘. However I also get asked about rare/more unusual choices, and I fully had the intention of writing a follow-up to that blog post. Well, better late than never, so here goes!

Here’s a selection of ten songs requested for me to play by couples that are a little out of the mould of the ‘typical’ wedding song. They may be slightly outside-the-box or just rare gems that I’d never heard before. Hopefully these tracks may give some inspiration to the bride or groom-to-be searching for something a little different – maybe one of these will be your perfect wedding song!

In no particular order…

Keb’ Mo’ – Closer

I was introduced to this brilliant song by my good friends Christopher and Victoria back in 2011, when I had the privilege of playing at their Dorset wedding. I instantly fell in love with this song and I’ll often slip it into a drinks reception or pre-wedding ceremony playlist. Keb’ Mo’s soulful voice, the chilled acoustic guitar work and brilliant lyrics make it a winner in my book.


Blue Swede – Hooked on a Feeling

A song many will know from the film ‘Guardians of the Galaxy’ but one that was new to me, I’ll be honest! When I heard the intro I was a little thrown as to how to make this into an acoustic first dance song, but then I heard the lyrics and fun vibe of the song and thought, yes, I get it! This actually works really well acoustically, and is a great upbeat start to the evening as a first dance, or even during the wedding ceremony itself.


Jack Johnson – Angel

Jack Johnson’s music is well known and a popular choice at weddings – “Better Together” is the main song that springs to mind. However, this track from his 2008 album Sleep Through The Static is one that is maybe less known and it’s one that I love playing! Subtle, heartfelt and just beautiful, I think this is a sublime wedding song.


Derek Gust – I Do

Very obviously a wedding song, but one that probably not many will have heard of. The lyrics are certainly perfect for the big day, and I played this as a bridal entrance song once – a really lovely choice for the ceremony.


Samm Henshaw – Only Wanna Be With You

Introduced to me earlier this year by couple Hannah and Dan, I was blown away by this piece of songwriting genius. As far as I’m concerned, this song should be just as popular as All of Me by John Legend, but is still a little under the radar. I think this track is just brilliant – have a listen and judge for yourself!


Madness – It Must Be Love

Ok, not an “unusual” song by any means – but it’s surprisingly rare to hear this at a wedding, other than maybe during the disco in the evening! I played this during the recessional (married couple exit) at a wedding ceremony earlier this year and it makes a really good choice with just acoustic guitar and voice. Upbeat and fun!


Mr & Mrs F – Love is on the Radio

This song brings back fab memories of Amanda and Iwan’s amazing wedding at Fforest in West Wales. Originally by McFly, band member Tom Fletcher and his wife Giovanna recorded this cute acoustic version, and it works brilliantly as a song for the wedding ceremony, drinks reception or as a first dance.


The Ramones – Baby I Love You

One of those songs that everyone knows, but no-one really thinks to have at a wedding! Originally recorded by the Ronettes in 1963, this version by the Ramones is maybe better known, and it can work really well with just acoustic guitar. I played this as a first dance and it worked a treat.


The Script – I’m Yours

Not to be confused with the Jason Mraz song of the same name, this track by The Script is definitely one to check out. A lovely chilled acoustic track, with perfect lyrics for the wedding ceremony or first dance.


Bright Eyes – First Day Of My Life

And finally, this little gem from American outfit Bright Eyes. Not a song I know a lot about, but the heartfelt lyrics and delicate delivery make it a beautiful choice, particularly apt for the wedding ceremony.


Thanks for reading. I hope this blog post was of some use – if one of these makes your list, let me know! Best of luck with choosing your perfect wedding playlist.



Pat is a singer and guitarist from Bristol, UK, specialising in live acoustic music for weddings.

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24th July 2017: Gig cancellation

Gig diary update:

I will no longer be playing at Smoke and Mirrors The UK’s Only Boutique Magic Theatre Pub on August 11th. My apologies, I know there were a couple of people hoping to come down and watch me play. Unfortunately my schedule is just too busy that weekend and something had to give!

My next live performance at Smoke & Mirrors will be September 9th. Sorry that live public gigs are few and far between at the moment – I’m jam packed with private bookings every weekend throughout the Summer. Through the Autumn and Winter I’ll be adding more live weekend dates, so keep an eye on my gigs page https://www.guitaristforweddings.co.uk/gigs/for updates.

17th May 2017: End of an era!

Well, after nearly 8 years, I’m saying goodbye to one of my resident venues Illusions Magic Bar. Sadly there will no longer by live music at Illusions at the weekend, but I’d like to say thank you to Mark, the staff, my fellow musicians and of course everyone that came down to watch me through the years!


Can’t believe I was there nearly a decade – how time flies! I remember the first few gigs when the music stage used to be near the bar, with the grand piano. Fun times! Then the renovation and the nice new stage that was installed. It’s always been a totally unique and fun place to play, and I’ve had some really memorable nights there!

I’ll still be continuing my regular gigs at Smoke & Mirrors in the centre, and will also post up any other public appearances on my gigs page.

Thanks Illusions – it’s been fun!



May 2017: Half price last-minute offer!


Big news for anyone looking to add the final special touch to their big day! I have a few dates left in May available, and I’m offering these out on a first come, first served basis with 50% off.

This would mean the Wedding Ceremony & Drinks Reception music package would be just £225 + travel, or the Drinks Reception only package would be just £185 + travel.

Friday/Saturday dates available are May 5th, 6th, 12th, 13th, 19th and 26th. Weekdays and Sundays are also available, except the 14th and 28th.

Get in touch here if you’d like any further information or are interested in booking.

26th April 2017: Fay’s birthday and Paul & Anna’s wedding at Rendcomb College

On Friday 21st April I headed up to the fab The Park Hotel for Fay Stewart’s surprise 85th birthday party, arranged by her daughter Claire Stewart. Lovely afternoon spent playing some acoustic music during the meal and mingling with some lovely people.

On Saturday I headed up to Rendcomb College for Anna & Paul’s wedding celebrations. A new venue for me this one, and wow! What a place. A stunning setting for a beautiful wedding – and the weather was spectacular as well. Congratulations to an absolutely wonderful couple, it was a pleasure to play some acoustic tunes during the drinks reception.

I set up in the hall ready for the drinks reception. Amazing acoustics! I did a quick instagram video of the sound check (I failed to crop out the bit at the end when I posted the video, oops!!):

As everyone arrived following the church ceremony, they grabbed themselves a drink and most folks headed outside – so I did a quick move of setup and continued the music out in the sun. The beauty of my new Bose L1 PA system is that it’s super quick and easy to move locations!

Here are Paul & Anna’s song choices for the drinks reception:

Adele - Rolling In The Deep 
Aloe Blacc - I Need A Dollar 
Arctic Monkeys - I Bet That You Look Good On The Dancefloor 
Avicii - Wake Me Up 
Avicii - Hey Brother
Beatles - She Loves You 
Bon Jovi - Livin' On A Prayer (acoustic version) 
Bruno Mars - Uptown Funk 
Bryan Adams - Summer of '69
Counting Crows - Accidentally In Love
Daft Punk - Get Lucky
Ed Sheeran - Shape of You 
Ed Sheeran - Castle on the Hill 
Ed Sheeran - Galway Girl 
Eric Clapton - Wonderful Tonight
Green Day - Time Of Your Life
Jackson Five - I Want You Back 
The Jam - That's Entertainment 
James Blunt - You're Beautiful 
Jessie J - Price Tag 
John Legend - All Of Me 
John Newman - Love Me Again
Keane - Somewhere Only We Know 
The Killers - Mr Brightside 
Kings of Leon - Sex on Fire
Lighthouse Family - Lifted
Maroon 5 - Moves Like Jagger
Newton Faulkner - Dream Catch Me
Oasis - Wonderwall 
Oasis - Don't Look Back In Anger 
Oasis - She's Electric
Passenger - Let Her Go
Queen - Crazy Little Thing Called Love
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Californication
Snow Patrol - Chasing Cars

20th March 2017: Kingscote Barn Spring Open Day/Wedding Fair



Yesterday saw my first appearance at the Kingscote Barn Open day. I’ve played at Kingscote many times, but this was my first appearance at one of their open days. What a fantastic day! Very busy, and such a great atmosphere – I highly recommend checking out one of their open days if you’re on the hunt for a wedding venue, or if you’re after some wedding inspiration.

Kingscote Open Day

A great day playing live music and chatting with wedding couples. Looking forward to returning to Kingscote Barn in June for Alex & Rebecca’s big day 🙂

Talking of live appearances, you may notice that the gigs page is a little bare at the moment. I’ve had a couple of people email this week asking whether I have any live shows coming up. Well – no, at the moment! My two resident venues Illusions and Smoke & Mirrors are currently putting together their musician schedule, so I’ll add my dates in as soon as they’ve got this organised.

Otherwise, my next public appearances will be at the Old Down Estate wedding fair in September, and the Chosen Wedding Fair in October.



23rd Feb 2017: Winter Wedding Fair appearance this Sunday

Added public appearance this Sunday 26th…

I’m a last-minute addition to The Square Club Winter Wedding Fair. Pop down, hear me in action and chat all things wedding music!

For more information about this event click here.


Taken from the Square’s website:

FREE ENTRY  |  12 – 4pm

Plus, enjoy welcome fizz on arrival courtesy of Perrier-Jouet!

If you’re planning your big day and need some inspiration, look no further than our Winter Wedding Fair.

We’re opening our doors for the best boutique wedding fair in Bristol, showcasing our beautiful, fully licensed venue, and our pick of top local wedding suppliers. What’s more, our in-house wedding planning team will be on hand throughout to answer all your questions.

21st Feb 2017: New for 2017!

A bit of an audio-geek blog post this one, but just wanted to shout about my latest and greatest piece of equipment – the Bose L1 compact PA System.

bose l1

(stock photo – I have not grown hair!!)

I first heard one of these systems in action at a wedding last year. The DJ had two of these set up on the dance floor, and I couldn’t believe the sound quality and power that came out of those tiny speakers! It blew me away and I knew I had to get one in time for the 2017 wedding season.

A couple of weeks ago the delivery arrived. I eagerly set it up and plugged in my guitar and microphone. It’s nothing short of miraculous – the sound quality is astonishing from such a small unit and it’s ludicrously easy to set up. I don’t even need a mixer, although for the most part I’ll probably still use my mixer as it gives more control and flexibility over the sound.

The other great thing about this PA is that the speakers are all angled, so that you get full 180 degree coverage from one unit. I can place it in the middle of a room and it happily fills the space with glorious, pristine quality sound.


Setup with the L1 at Clevedon Hall

What this means for weddings is that I have a fantastically portable set-up for ceremonies and drinks receptions – and it’s even loud enough for the evening if required. It’s so much neater and will look much better in wedding venues – it means that I can get rid of 4 or 5 separate wires that I would usually have to plug in. This is going to give a much better appearance and take up less space – something which can be an issue in wedding venues.

I played my first gig with it at Clevedon Hall for their Valentines Day event and I’m already wondering how I lived without it!

An absolutely brilliant piece of kit which will add another level of slickness and professionalism to my performances – very excited to take this along to weddings in 2017!